
Every year millions of people decide “This is the year for me!” Promises are made and plans are set in place for a new, better you. Most of these resolutions fade within a month. Few survive to the see the spring, much less the heat of summer.
So what happens if you slip off the track? You could just promise to try again next year, or you could take the initiative today and make a resolution for yourself that doesn’t have to compromise! Here are a few tips to help you make everyday changes for the better.
- Be realistic in setting your goals. Even if you are feeling ambitious, realize that you’re only human. You can’t end war and save the planet all by yourself, and winning a new BMW is largely out of your influence.
- Have a specific goal in mind. Want to save the planet? Start by planting a new tree once a month. Volunteer your time at a charity organization or community centre. These are the kinds of goals you should be thinking about; clear and concise.
- Create a resolution where you can measure your success throughout the year. People tend to say things like “I’m going to be a better husband/wife”. What does that mean in terms of new behaviour? If you can’t evaluate your progress than the whole resolution is worthless. If you say “I’m going to spend two hours every weekend alone with my husband/wife doing something she enjoys”, that’s a bit more manageable. Commit to a schedule, a specific activity, or a certain location. You should feel good about honouring your goals, so make sure you give yourself the chance.
- Do something worthwhile. It’s never too late to do something for yourself and the greater good. Watching two hours of TV instead of three isn’t going to alter your life or anyone else’s. Think about what you have to offer the world, your passions and hobbies, and what problem in your community you can help solve.
- Consider alternatives instead of just “quitting”. This is an extremely valuable lesson in terms of personal psychology. If you want to quit smoking for instance, all power to you! What will help you in the long run is if you can say “instead of smoking right when I get up in the morning, I’m going to take a hot bath to relax.” Instead of lighting up at the office, make it a point to chat with a co-worker you haven’t spoken to that week. It’s these little alternatives that keep your mind occupied as you wean off of unhealthy practices.









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